Love and Women
Guys let’s talk. It seems there’s a whole lot of “lovin” going on and not nearly any “love”. I don’t blame you, well not directly. It might not be your fault. It might be that noone told you what love is. It might be your parents were abusive. It might be that they didn’t have love in their life to begin with. It might be that you’re from a broken home, and your mom or dad had nothing but hate oozing out of every pore of their skin.
I am here to clear it all up. If you can read, you can reason. If you can reason, then you can understand exactly what the hell I’m saying.
You need to go back to love.
What is Love, Baby Don’t Hurt Me
It seems that a lot of guys were never taught love. In fact, it seems that men these days are put on the back burner altogether. T.V. is engineered to cater to women. Why? Because, advertisers run t.v. and advertisers cater to women 99% of the time. All the programs, news, shows, movies, are all catering to women to get them to shop. That’s how t.v. makes money.
|Destroy the Idiot Box|
So what’s the message on t.v.? Woman empowerment, woman strength, anything to get women in the frame of mind that she needs to get her own money and go shopping. Sorry girls, you’ve been had, hoodwinked, bamboozled. It is not geared to say anything to men. Even beer commercials are geared towards women. Think for one second. What man wants to see a really hot guy drinking beer with his shirt off, abs of steel, and women flocking to him? None. That’s not marketing to a man, it’s for a woman. A beer commercial for a man is, THIS HERE BEER TASTES GOOD. That’s it. We’re pretty damn simple to market to.
Ok if nothing on t.v. or movies is geared towards men, what’s my point? A lot of the messages on t.v. and entertainment is to empower women to go shop. Along with that, is a very very loose message that women should be loose, i.e. sluttified, whorish, hookerated. The message is, if the girl is calling the shots in bed, then she can also go shop. This message bleeds over to men. Men then expect hookerish women.
Suddenly everyone is 35 and can’t stay up all night partying, and rent is due. We all grow up and realize hookering is not the way. Maybe we should settle down. The problem is noone ever told you how to settle down. So you, sir, keep dating these lost women.
Fact: married people have more sex than single people. Way more!
I don’t care what kind of stud you think you are, married people are sexing you under the table, comparatively speaking. So if sex is your object, you picked the wrong way to go if you’re single.
Men get into a rut easily, as far as sex and relationships go. Just as we are simple to market to, we live simple lives as well. If we get into this sex mode, it is damn hard to come to the realization that sex is not the only thing in life, when relating to a woman. So we reach the age of 35 and some of us don’t even think about settling down.
How to Love a Woman
While the message on t.v. might seem great, that women should be independent, it destroys the traditional views. The message on t.v. is that women should be independent NOW, and that they WEREN’T before. Back up a second. They are rewriting history and what traditional and conservative thinking and social outlook was before.
A man was never put over a woman to dominate her. Noone ever said that, except those crazies that want their way. A man was put over a woman for one thing, to protect her from … OTHER MEN, not to dominate her, not to tell her what to do, not to lord over her.
And, it has always been ying yang situation. A man was to be “over” a woman, to protect her, and she was to take care of the man. It’s almost like saying the same thing. But, t.v. will get you all twisted.
Get your Ying Yang On
|The Real Ying Yang Symbol|
For those who don’t know what ying yang means, it’s simply that black and white co-exist. You’ll see erroneous pictures of ying yang being just black and white on their own sides, but sort of hugging each other. The true symbol has not only black and white on each side, but a black and white dot inside of the opposite color too.
It is a duality that exists all over the place. And, it can be applied to nearly everything in life. You cannot have life without death. You cannot have growth without decay. You cannot have man without woman. Regardless of what t.v. spews out, you cannot have man without woman, nor woman without man.
Now it’s time out with going and getting some girl pregnant. Really, that’s just an immature way of visually showing that you have sex. I know. It’s messed up, but people really do think like that.
I’m going to prove to the fellas that I have sex, so i’m going to make several baby’s mamas all over the place. Then I won’t be seen as no punk.
You don’t want to be seen as a punk? Buy a house. Get married. Have children. And, pass the house on to your children when you die. That’s the definition of a man, in anyone’s book.
Women Need Love
If you want to have lots of good sex, find a woman that you connect with mentally. Did I stutter? There is nothing in this world better, than having sex with a woman knows you, and I mean know, a woman that understands you, a woman that shrugs when you get mad, sad, happy, or act stupid. Having children when you’re married is an experience noone can even talk to you about.
You need to see women in a light, that is totally and completely new. This might sound stupid, but you should be looking for a soulmate. We humans NEED each other. We are social animals. That means, we will die if we don’t see each other. As social animals, we need mates of our own.
I’m sure you’ve heard that a man is naturally disposed to have many women. It’s so not true. A man can no more pay attention to more than one woman, than he can pay attention to more than one penis. Can you imagine? Throw out that stupid thinking. Get your own woman. Keep her. And, by keeping her I mean, make her happy. Not, do what she says, do what she needs. If she needs your body for the night, give it to her. If she needs your shoulder to lean on, pull her close. If she’s afraid hold her.
There is no greater joy than to love a woman and bring her into your life. It’s a serious thing I know, but the reward is unspeakable.
I’m not saying get taken by some woman that has no intentions of marrying you. I’m not saying pay for some woman’s rent and car note. Oh yes, I’ve seen that happen too often. I’m not saying have sex with your girlfriend and get her pregnant and ooops we broke up, things happen. No they don’t. You don’t get fat by accident. You don’t get pregnant, just cuz. Things don’t just happen. That’s what people say, who don’t want to take responsibility.
I’m NOT saying you need to be a sensitive, cry baby man. That message, “women want a sensitive man” is a message for women, again to go shopping. A woman doesn’t want a sensitive man. Yes be conscious that your woman is in heat, but don’t go meeting some girl and cry on her shoulder on the first date. That’s just retarded. Be conscious of your woman yes. Be a woman yourself, no.
My ultimate message would be, get married before you have sex with her. Player player, if you ballin, you can handle that can’t you? I didn’t say you had to date her for 10 years either. Think about some of your best friends. Did it take you years to become best friends? Or, did you spend like a summer together and were best friends from then on? Think about this one too, used to be people were told to whom they had to marry. Guess what, a whole heck of a lot of those marriages lasted. So this notion you gotta date someone, and register for marriage at gift registry for a year, is hogwash and poppycock. You only need time to get to know each other. And, by know I mean know. You don’t have to shack up together, that means move in with each other. But, if you two are open and honest, you can get to know each other in no time.