Hate Against Black Men
There is a lot of hate speech, being put forth by women these days, started mainly by white women. Black women and the media have picked up this mantra. The notion is that they were so downtrodden, by men that they had to start a movement. The original version was women’s suffrage. Don’t get me wrong, women’s suffrage is a great thing, however the movement was hijacked by nefarious individuals who had a much broader, yet hidden agenda that had nothing to do with the political and financial equality of women.
Understand me, I am for the political and financial equality of women. Period! However, there are those who have taken it so far and their purpose is clear, they want the subjugation of men. Imagine how pissed I am when I open a door for a total cunt and she stops and turns to me and screams, “I can open the door for myself.” What this cunt doesn’t realize is that gentlemen open doors for each other too, not just cunts with no home training. But, I digress.
It’s one thing to say you fight for the equality of women. It’s an entirely different thing to say that men are no good and need to be under your thumb and men must be attacked at every opportunity.
I present to you the latest inference of this. The degradation of the Black man in America. This mantra of hate versus Black men has been started since slavery. It originally was started, of course, by the male slave masters to keep their own wives in check. They not only enslaved Black men, but then turned around and said they were less than human, unfit for compassion, besmirched by God [mormons said this, no Black person should ever join that church, if you do, you’re an ignorant fool and doomed for hell anyway], and equated to animals. The white woman was then made to hate the Black man and then thought it was her own idea that Black men were animals. Meanwhile in Europe, Black and white people began to marry. These ignorant white women then, thinking they had come up with the idea that Black men [and women] were animals, unfit to live, carried this hatred on through the decades.
Black Women Back Stab Black Men
By the time women’s suffrage came along, the ones who took over the movement with their “men are to be hated”, this notion of Black men being animals resurfaced. From the time of women’s suffrage to present day they’ve had this mantra. Finally Black women, who were brought into this den of lies and deceit, were told this mantra of Black men are animals. What’s sad is, they bought it. Even when Black Americans were having a power struggle in the 60’s, Black women started speaking out against Black men. Talk about a back stab. At the very time that we as a people were trying to get our “come uppins”, Black women started with their hate speech against Black men. I’m sure it was whispered into their ears by those white women in the women’s liberation movement. There were Black women making speeches against Black men, poems, books. If you got a problem with your man, that doesn’t mean you go and air it in public. It would be one thing to have a problem with one Black man and then air it in public. No! These women said it was all Black men. The worst were the very public figures, like authors, poets and singers.
I’m giving these women the benefit of the doubt. Meaning, I’m assuming they actually had a real life problem with one Black man at some point. But, as sure as I’m Black, I bet these were just hatemongers that wanted to: start mess; sell books; sell records. The really obvious women who had it hard didn’t turn around and make it into a hate Black men campaign: Tina Turner for example. (and her records are still selling like hot cakes)
Songs That Dog Black Men
In modern times, it is the white media that started this mantra of “Black men are no good”. Stupid Black women fell for it and picked it up and now say it themselves. Even major Black singers say this nonsense:
- Gloria Gaynor – I Will Survive
- Sunshine Anderson – Heard it All Before
- Rihanna – Take a Bow
- Gwen Guthrie – Aint Nothing Going On But The Rent
- Syleena Johnson – Guess What
- Erykah Badu – Tyrone
- Jazmine Sullivan – Bust Your Windows
- Destiny’s Child – Jumping / Bills Bill Bills / Bugaboo
- T.L.C. – No Scrubs
- En Vogue – Never Gonna Get it
- Blu Cantrell – hit em up
- Beyonce Knowles – All the Single Ladies, Irreplaceable
Stop, let’s talk about that song Irreplaceable for a second. The song was written and sung by a white woman and Beyonce picked it up and sings it to Black men. This is the exact thing I’m talking about.
Half the time, no actually 90% of the time, the artist doesn’t even write the song. So, who could be writing the songs? Obviously the music industry is dominated by white people, so it stands to reason that white lyricist are writing these songs.
Music Industry Dogs Black Men
Now the music industry is a business like any other. They seek to maximize profits for their investment. If you give them the benefit of the doubt, you can say that the best selling songs are smut songs or smear songs, which is exactly true. Everyone loves to hear gossip or bad news. Good news is boring right? No it’s not that easy.
An excellent song has many elements: perfect orchestration of the notes, so that the chords progress in a pleasing fashion to the listener; perfect melody and harmony of the singers. That’s it! Any great song of all time had those elements right there. So it stands to reason a good song can sell as much as a smear song. Of course it can, most people can barely understand the lyrics anyway.
With that said, can you say smear songs against Black men are just a thing of business, or could there be something underhanded? There’s something obviously underhanded going on. Was it a coincidence from 2000 – 2007 the top of the pop, r&b, rap charts was dominated by smear songs against Black men.
If you’ve been reading this blog you know that I’ve already said that 70% of black men are employed, with a median income of $30,000 a year, no kids, and own their own home / apartment. If the numbers weren’t so stack up against these singers it would be a guessing game. But, clearly there’s someone that wants Black men to appear as if they have: no job, no prospects, no home. You can then imply from this that Black men must: be angry; beat their wife/girl friends; be unfaithful; end up in jail.
It’s pretty obvious that there’s a campaign against the Black man in America. What’s sad is that Black women are being used as: suckers, chumps, idiots, morons, tools, children falling for it. A Black woman can’t see what’s right in front of her eyes. They go into relationships expecting: cheating; abuse; back stabbing. With that type of attitude, no matter who you date, the relationship is going to end up just plain wrong. What’s worse is, even if the Black woman doesn’t have that attitude, the mother does and poisons the daughter. This cycle of hate never ends.
The Solution to Black Women Being Used as Tools
First of all have your own brain. If you know yourself, then no one can control you. That means recognize when a game is being played on you. I know it’s hard, and you might think its paranoid to think like that, but in this day and age you gotta be a little paranoid to survive. You can’t just run to daddy or momma when things go wrong. You can’t just go willy nilly and hope for the best and then end up in the middle of the soup and say oops.
That means for instance: you find a good man, but you have bought into the lie that Black men are dogs, idiots, users. From day one you nag this man and drive him further and further away. From day one, I’ve seen it. Then the relationship goes sour and now you got 1 bad relationship under your belt. The next relationship is doomed, because you got proof relationships don’t work. You end up 40, unmarried, with no kids. The truth is you bought into the propaganda and you didn’t even take time to “know thyself”. Your man came home each night exhausted from being abused and working hard and all you could do is call him lazy and shiftless. 12% of Black men are unemployed, that’s double what white men are. Do you think the ones that are employed might be having a hard time each day to just keep their job? You are damn skippy.
Don’t buy into the propaganda Black men are anything other than human. I am not saying we are kings, angels, but I am saying we are not the devils you hear about in the news.
Second, don’t support these smear campaigns. Don’t buy the records putting Black men down. Don’t buy books putting Black men down. “If it is to be it’s up to me.” If every Black woman refused to buy those books and records, how long would you see them on the shelf for sale? Probably they’d disappear. Don’t buy into this smut. I’m not saying you gotta carry your bible around and only read that [although that’d be an excellent idea], but I am saying “put nothing before you” that is just a bunch of trash. This goes back to my first point, know yourself. You don’t want to infect your brain with negativity. Hell you could buy men’s sports magazines and look at the pictures [it’s innocent reading and the guys are all fitness models anyway, good eye candy for you].
Third don’t support smear campaigns against yourself. Why would you buy a record that called Black women whores and sluts and such. That is the maximum height of stupid. You gotta have a whole tub, hell and oil tanker of low self esteem. Trust me, take it from me, I don’t want to date a slut; I don’t want a whore; I don’t want a skeezer; I don’t want you walking around looking like a prostitute. My woman? Oh hell no. I don’t want a slut, and nobody better let me catch them calling her a slut.
Understand someting, real Black men don’t want sluts, they want ladies. Black men respect their moms. They want to bring something home to them. What a fool you are if you think a Black man wants to bring home something in a tube top, hoochy pants and stilettos. Are you out of your god damn mind?
I’ll say this. I’ve traveled all over the world. For the majority of Black women versus white women I’ve met, the Black women were 10 times more conservative than white women. The white women were far more promiscuous and dressed like tramps far more often than Black women. I just had to say that, so you didn’t think I’m putting down Black women.
Lastly, behave like a lady and you’ll attract the sort of man you really want. I would hope it would be a Black man, but if it’s not, it can be someone else too. But please don’t fall for this, other races are better than Black men. That’s the same crap I just got through talking about. But, treat yourself like a lady and others will too.
And, I know this happens, if you run into women that aren’t ladies and hate on your for being a lady, move on. They are not worth your time and effort.
You know the best place to find a good Black man? College. Scoop them up. And, quickly. I give you permission to ask them on a date FIRST. Go to college and scoop up a good Black man. You’ll find a huge concentration of good Black men in colleges all across America. Don’t be a fool, stay in school. Keep your eye on the future. Scoop you up a college Black man, and your children will turn out just that much better too. [I’m serious as a heart attack about this]